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My Big Fat Lesbian Life – Dating Update

In Uncategorized on July 6, 2012 at 6:40 pm

Here’s the run down:

I’ve been asked about person I mentioned in my blog “Thank You”.

I dated her, I stopped dating her. I should have written an update sooner, but honestly I just didn’t want to have to mention her at all because it just wasn’t that pleasant of an experience.

I don’t want to become the Taylor Swift of blogging, so I’ll spare the major details. I will tell you what I took from it though: If your friends start calling the person you’re dating the “emotional vampire” – it’s a red flag.

I didn’t make it through the stress of my “marriage” and divorce just to date someone else that was going to treat me with disregard again. Which, unfortunately, is the exact place I found myself. I just don’t do well in places with people who absorb my energy without giving something back. Take, take, take, take, give. Rinse and repeat.


Which, speaking of, I was cleaning out the closet tonight and came across a list my ex wife had written me. It was titled “A Million Reasons Why I Love You”. Of course there wasn’t a million actual written reasons, more like 30 or so. However, I read the list and rolled my eyes. Maybe at one time she meant all those things she said, but I don’t think she’s capable. Either way, it was put o great use. I ran shredder oil across it and ran it through the shredder.

Gotta keep that thing working like new.

On a random note, Katie Holmes… I’m so proud of that girl!