My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – Thank You

After much thought, I decided this letter belongs as the last entry under My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce heading. It's really more of a morph (non Power Rangers style, though I'd like to be the Pink Power Ranger if I had to choose). In saying that, I'm struggling for the words to open a good-bye...

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – Dear Diary

Dear Diary, I've had a lot of things going on lately. It seems like life just keeps moving on, and I get so lost in living. It's when I lay my head down at night, that I hear the sounds that my thoughts make. Sometimes it sounds like yelling, crying, grief, joy and at times...

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – I Saw Your Picture Today..

Sometime during our marriage, I had put together a bulletin board that was on the wall, at the foot of the bed. On the board I had posted some of my favorite photos of us, along with some sentimental keepsakes (like that parking ticket and cards). It was my hope that in the midst of...

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – 4 Months

August 4th came and went. It marked a couple of dates that are significant, but I've been so busy living, that I totally let it slip by. While I understand this is a good thing, proof that my life has continued just fine, I am wishing I had taken total advantage and used it to...

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – Coat Hangers. What More Can I Say?

I've been given some hysterical suggestions regarding the 40 white (plastic) coat hangers that my ex paid her attorney to request possession of (I'm still amused by that fact) along with a few other trivial items (a blender blade, and some silverware amongst the request) Think about it... Attorney writing request for plastic white coat...

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – No Wire Hangers!

I got an e/mail from my now official "ex". The ex is now requesting the return of some items, despite the court order actually gives me possesion of all the items that remained in the home, unless otherwise specified.. (there were no items specified) Amongst the requests? .. (wait for it) 40 plastic coat hangers,...

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – The Ugly Brown Jacket Has Left The Building

It's been delivered and donated.

My Big Fat Lesbian Divorce – Let’s Not Do The Time Warp Again

I was cleaning out the closet, and came across a few things I had bought because she wanted me to. They're ugly. I got to thinking about all the real annoying habits she had, and trying to dress me was one of them. Which, I found odd because she had really bad taste when it...